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The Actual Happiness

Hi again! I was wondering if you could reply to me about the moment when you are most happy. I know, like me, you must be counting your past moments. This is where we constantly try to attain happiness. I was extremely cheerful when was studying in high school. I genuinely enjoyed most of the moments. However, did you know when I got to know this? Haha! When I went to college for higher studies at that time, I realized my school’s joyful days. This often happens to everyone. We always became happy in the past or the future when we are planning for something. The same happened to my dear brother. A day before yesterday, we were talking about happy moments of our lives and we were counting days, years, and specific moments. At that instant we were making plans of Houses, Job, retirement Blah blah blah… and suddenly brother stops discussing and started saying, see what represents human nature? How we see the enjoyment in coming days and past moments even though we were miserable in those flashes in the past but we become and realize happiness after that moment passed. He started telling me a story.Hi again! I was wondering if you could reply to me about the moment when you are most happy. I know, like me, you must be counting your past moments. This is where we constantly try to attain happiness. I was extremely cheerful when was studying in high school. I genuinely enjoyed most of the moments. However, did you know when I got to know this? Haha! When I went to college for higher studies at that time, I realized my school’s joyful days. This often happens to everyone. We always became happy in the past or the future when we are planning for something. The same happened to my dear brother. A day before yesterday, we were talking about happy moments of our lives and we were counting days, years, and specific moments. At that instant we were making plans of Houses, Job, retirement Blah blah blah… and suddenly brother stops discussing and started saying, see what represents human nature? How we see the enjoyment in coming days and past moments even though we were miserable in those flashes in the past but we become and realize happiness after that moment passed. He started telling me a story.

Once there was a fisherman. He used to catch fish on the banks of the river every day and sell the fish on the other side of the river. This work used to run his house. He was satisfied with this. One day he was lying near the river and enjoying a pleasant daytime with a bowl of soup. One wealthy businessperson was passing nearby. He saw the fisherman and called him. The angler lifted his hat and looked at him with twinkled eyes. The Businessman was well suited booted. He urged the angler what he is doing. He replied, Can’t you see, I am enjoying my day after a massive sale of fish. And having soup in the sun he added. The business person sat next to him. He said, “Did you know if you hire one or two people with boats you can catch and sell more fish and can gain extra money?” The lying angler shook his head and sits. The businessman started conveying more ideas. He said, then after this, you can buy two or three ships, sell your fish to the city and get more prices for the fresh fish. The experienced fisherman lies down again. That Businessperson again has shaken his shoulder and tell with all that money you can buy a vast ship and bigger fishing net you would not need to do much work. You will have to look after the hired guys for one or two hours a day only. The one-day whale can be caught thru that net and you will be a millionaire.

That entrepreneur insisted him to think about this idea and more extensive business. This time the fisherman stood up and started looking at the river. As he turned around and queried the businessman, what would I gain by doing all this? The businessman smiled and said you will be satisfied, and you can enjoy the sun here. The fishermen laughed gently and said this is what I was doing when you came here!!!

That wealthy entrepreneur learned, Happiness or satisfaction cannot be earned thru money, forecasting events, or with plans. One should be satisfied with his/her present time/situation like the one the fisherman does.

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Time will never Stop ⊗

It is a wonder how this world works. It is a wonder how time never stops as it is meant to be like that only because otherwise people gonna stay at their best memory places forever! I wish I could stay there where I feel cheerful & some time secure.
Umm! I am under depression today. The time when I settled so many things & was totally about to take another step to move ahead in my life suddenly something pulled me back. It was time to sleep but I was not in the mood of. So many things were running through the mind. For the time being, it seems like… Quite… Shhh… No need to express about anything and elsewhere I feel like it is good to burst out of your inner layer.
This morning my motive is to describe myself that time never going to stop for anyone. It will be never happening. The wish would remain to be wish if you are not come up with. This thought come to mind when I was staining clothes and expecting a few things for and from me. The expectation goes into another way, where no one going to stops you to approach and sit here and let us discuss.
Time is not waiting for me to do well. I have so many dreams. I will have to achieve those things within the time. But where is the TIME? Why am I incapable to cope up with it? I am completing my specific tasks on time. Earning well according to the job, but why I could not manage time for everything? I am in confusion about this, but I have results too. Everything has a reason to happen. Nothing is worthless which happening around you and me. There is No use thinking of the past for its gone, do not think about the future as it has to come, think of the present because that is where you are.

Elizabeth Forsythe Hailey said, “Time is a cruel thief to rob us of our former selves. We lose as much to live as we do to death. “

Let me plan for my things one more time. I need to focus again on my wishes & dreams, which are still in queue to happen. Let me there in my time where I stopped and again started to motivate myself only. Yesss!!! Let it burst out.

Moral: Identify the proper value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it. No idleness, no laziness, and no procrastination: never put off until tomorrow what you can do today. Be there! Be in present and then you will cope up with it.

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World Cycle & The Women

World Cycle & The Women

Yeah, you have read right. Women are as significant as men in this world are. Let us begin with a story my mom told me…

A few months back, my sister was blessed with a baby boy. After one & quarter, month, my brother in law came and brought sweets. Everybody was extremely cheerful. My mom distributes some of them with neighbors. People were heartily congratulating my mom and sister for having a son. Suddenly my mysterious mind fetches questions from these blessings. I asked mom when my same sister was blessed with a girl, as they all were happy? She said yes! I addressed once more, Mom did Brother in law purchased desserts around then as well? She smilingly replied yes, but a few. I asked “How much?” Mom, only two boxes of sweets. I again questioned why? Why weren’t they given the same number of sweets when sister gave birth to a girl? Why people were ungiven the same blessings to the sister when she brought another same life to this world? Upset mom did not reply this time. She spoke after a few minutes and begin…

Once there was a king, he did not want any girl as a child. When her wife gave birth to her first baby, it was a girl. He instantly ordered the governess to kill the child. She did not do it and gave that child to the family who was having no babies.

After this, no child of the king was born. He was extremely upset. He started seeking solutions but was unsuccessful. He tried for many years, but nothing happened. His master found a way. The Guru said that performing Yagya could benefit him. The king had to do the Yagya according to the Guru’s command until all the members of his family & kingdom came. The king performed about 90 Yagyas, but his sacrifice was becoming unsuccessful. He again went to his guru and inquired why he is getting failure, even after so much sacrifice? The Guru was very surprised and said something is missing. He said that I had a feeling, not everyone from your family, is coming. According to the orders of the Guru, he sent an invitation to the whole area. The king carefully instructed that if no one came, he would crush him in Kohlu (oil mill). Everyone has come. He ordered his men to check if anyone left in the town but everyone came because of the king’s fear. Now, the king was very happy that everyone had come and my 100th sacrifice will be successful. The queen gave birth to a boy. The king was very happy. He wanted to thank his people who came to the Yagya. The whole state was called again. All were given gifts. A poor family was still sitting in line to get more gifts.

The king and queen moved towards them and suddenly the Guru came. The Guru recognized that family. He told the king that because of this family your Yagya has been fruitful. The king asked curiously, why are you saying this, Guru? His guru replied that son; the girl you are seeing is your daughter. The king was surprised. He was unready to believe that because he had killed her at the time of birth. He instantly ordered the soldiers to bring that mistress. As soon as she came and gave proof that, this girl is your daughter. The king was stunned. He was so surprised he could not say anything. He adopted his daughter and son-in-law. They spent the rest of their life happily.

MORAL:

What did you learn from this? “Well, The King has learned a lesson that Women are the backbone of society. Without them, the world would be incomplete“.

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Lost Me

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My spirit walks around the streets and

Wander in the clouds of trees

Going round in the circle and at the sea.

Searching for the lost me

I wonder if anyone could found me

The real me!

Scattered pieces into tears

One time held ever fear

Lost and gone cry in the air

Searching for the lost me

Soul will come with warmth of love

Energy of smile and

Fragrance of wet eyes

Your interpretation has odor of bitter sweet

Searching for the lost me….!!!

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Woman in Train- A Random Memory

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I am an Indian woman and has passed so many life examinations as every woman does. The life will never stop examine you. It will be never late to give true examination about your inner self about how you true to yourself!

I am writing after so long due to some questionnaire revolving around me. New Days, New Life and new struggles. I was thinking everything has changed, hopefully life will find some new tracks. Yes! It reroutes to something new but roots belong to struggles. Today I want to talk about a Woman’s struggle throughout the life. It is not about me but true for many woman who keep on struggling for life and lights and of course they all #Inspireme. (Person names can be fictions but story is true)

I went to Gujarat (India State Gujarat is famous for its rich cultural heritage) in July’17. I went on my friend’s engagement party. I was coming back in train after two days. I was a little ill with sore throat. Firstly, an uncle was gazing at me since long time, I ignored. But he could not resist and talked to me. He asked about my study/career and hometown. Next stop was Indore and two boys came and sat next to me. There was a foreigner passenger traveling in next compartment. Suddenly those boys start talking to me as they were willing to talk that foreigner lady.  That uncle started to make some sound to get noticed by that lady as she and he were belong to same “Hare-Krishna” group. She came and we started knowing about her.

She was so kind-hearted and really know more than us about Hindu religion. She start chanting with uncle, those boys and me. We enjoyed a lot. Before the time of arrival we got each-others contact/Instagram account details to get in touch with all. I was little uncomfortable to share my details with anyone who is unknown because we heard many of news on regular. But I found all of them were nice so we shared.

Then my stop comes and we moved to own destinations. I was connected with all of them on Instagram. That foreigner lady had put so many of pictures of her own and of her loved ones. I found a story in her timeline and even she told us when we were travelling together.  She was alone now as her husband passed away and her family was not happy as she was involving to Hinduism. But she doesn’t lose hope and was continuously growing and becoming more matured. She was alone but she is living her life with enthusiasm and perfections. Nothing is harming her she was traveling from her country to India and living here. She became a another inspiration for me and gave me a lesson of life.

Moral:  If any worse is happening to you is a part of your life. It is a journey, you may lose so many things and many of people will come and leave you but make yourself is a unique person. Nothing will ever going to hurt you if you are standing like a rock. Be yourself. Be happy in every situation because everything is given by God and he knows better what is better for us!!

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Field of Dreams

I think Dreams are the only human thing for which scientists have found no possible reason until now. Dreams, the word itself is interesting. I do not know how they are building up in my mind and comes in a variety of colors at night. The time when we are dreaming, we do not know real life. It seems we are originally where we are dreaming. Such an incredible thing it is! Isn’t it? Dreams can be anything. Recently I dreamed that I was sleeping in my dream and dreaming another dream. It was certain. There is no limit or bound on dreams. It can start whenever, want in your deep sleep and can make you happy or sad by your own choices.

Once a day, I was thinking about dreams that exactly what they are. I start daydreaming about so many things and suddenly my Mom came and shouted, “Where your mind is? I am calling you, and you are not replying to me.”I answered in a flurry, “Mmm…Mom, ah…aa… I was Dreaming.” She rubbed my back and sat next to me and asked, “Ok, what were you dreaming about?” I started telling her: Mom, I am dreaming about a big area where I am building my house. We have pools, playgrounds, Fruit Trees, a big lawn, etc. etc. I kept on saying and my Mom was listening to me very carefully. I thought she is felling into that dream too but suddenly my mom stops me and said, “Oh darling! You are dreaming about your new home. This is great. Let me tell you a Story” I was looking at my mom with full of curiosity and interest then she started:

There was a small village in the hilly area. There are several hillocks in this village. Among all, there is a small monticule, which was even and flat from the top. The sunset view was amazing from this top. Local villagers used to visit this monticule to see the beauty of nature and usually dreamed about a lovely house over this hillock but it was very hard to get required stuff to reach over there. There was a family of an old man who was living nearby to this place. He did morning and evening walk daily. He carried some bricks or stones in his hand while walking. Every villager was taunting him and making his jokes by saying him “Arree! Budha Pagla gya hai! (Translation: Oh, Lord! This old man got mad!) No one can make a house with these two bricks in his hands. However, not all these affected the old man. With his huge efforts, his family started supporting him. They kept on gathering some materials while going to that mount. Years had been passed! One day there was enough material to build a beautiful house. He built his dream house, as he wants. People around him were shocked and started praising him and thinking inside, we wish we could make those successful efforts to build a dream house at this place. Mom put her hands on my head and asked, “Hmmm!!! So did you get why I tell you this story?” I said, “very well! Mum”. I learned. Dreams are only those, which can be amply fulfilled by our will power and struggle.

Then my Mom gave me a lesson:

Dreams are those who do not let you sleep. We do not even remember in the morning, the dream we saw while sleeping. However, those Dreams, which are seen with, open eyes, we not only remember them, but they do not let us sleep. So dream Big and Work harder to make your #dream come true.

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The life Changes

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It is a new start! Few days ago I met one person who was trying to talk and wanted to be frank with me but I was not. The reason behind my expressions were unknown. It does not mean that I was showing my attitude or something because I am what I am. I treated him well and I was not at all arrogant but suddenly I received a massage from his side that “This is Life and every day is a new beginning.” I was amazed and asked him why did he wrote this to me? He observed something or some intuition has come onto his mind, I was curious to know.  but he did not answer.

  “This is Life and every day is a new beginning.” We read this line many times. We give advises to people but are we following it? Let us start here…….

The only thing which keep on running is our mind. Our mind has an incredible and powerful ability to change the things. This can create, modify, update & delete the moments which had happened, are happening and may be you are about to do it. When we start realizing what our mind is trying to say, or we suddenly opt the things which our mind was asking us for long, at that time a change has come into our life’s door step. We know very well that Change is a necessity but some time we were not ready and sudden change happen. It can be anything. Could be related to you daily work routine, might be nature of person toward you or can be your internal yourself which was not agreeing to change but it did ! The only reason is ” Change is a process not a event.”

Many times you feel distrust or antagonist but the happening has happened. So this is what I learnt new is Change is a phenomenon. You cant stop what is changing or what next gonna change. So be in present and live in Today.  If you are in present then you will not be worrying for future. Yes! This is life. Everything keeps on moving. Every day is a new beginning so Live it and pass positive vibes to others.

LOVE YOUR SELF

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Types of Struggles

 

strg.jpgHi this is me again, with a new interest, Type of struggles. This is the another part of Girl who born to learn. 

It is true ! Struggles teach us a lot but some time, your own struggles teach you to quit… just to quit everything but I did not do that.

I started my struggle when I was a kid. I lived like a boy. My papa was willing me to live like a boy and I did. My first struggle started from here. every one used to ask me that why I am so but I liked myself as I was. I studied well. I participated in almost every curricular activities. I stood first, struggle starts here. Suddenly my sister got married and Now my mum was doing all the works alone. Now as being a girl, I was the only person who can do household works on regular basis. (As an typical Indian mentality) I had seen the days when my brother was not doing any work at home but I was doing because I am a girl. Yes! I am a girl but the things differentiate. Here struggle starts. I started comparing the things like he is a boy and he is not doing these things and I am a girl and I have to do such things. It was my internal struggle. I was not talking to others for this. Yes! I was in depression for the same. I was losing my interest in  most interested things of life as student.

I did my senior secondary with Physics, Chemistry & Mathematics. I was willing to do Engineering after that. I had given entrance test for Engineering but could not do. Again! another struggle starts here. I have joined Bachelor’s in Science. I tries to quit everything in between but struggle made me to run again. I tried to quit but I couldn’t. I get frustrated but I ran. Again! struggle starts here. After breaking my dreams with a big hammer, I reunite again and moved to NZ. I was home sick, alone and losing hope there. I was jobless, lack of money, no work. I frustrated. Again! Struggle starts here. I worked hard met some beautiful Kiwis, I learnt how to be only strong if nothing else. I worked with inspirational people. I learned new things. then studies completed, again in search of better opportunity. Again! struggle starts here.

The Struggles always are different at different situations. Some time, we are unable to express what we did and what we want to do and inner struggle starts which is most dangerous. We are unable to control our brain and heart at same time. So try to opt only one among both otherwise internal struggle will never quit. We took some serious steps in pressure or to avoid those struggles but nothing changes because your early step dig a well to fall in. Struggles are the part of bright future ! BUT if you are still struggling internally then please don’t. Express it your near ones to protect your self ,to live your dreams alive.

So in nutshell, Struggle for your will, struggle for your dreams but do not struggle internally. Always remember, “Where there is the SUN there is the SHINE.” Bright Shine.

 

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Maturity- The Art of Living

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Maturity is many things.  With help of maturity you may change the way you live. The difference between Mature and Immature is : Immature will say “I want it now” but a mature person “can wait”.

Maturity is the ability to control anger and differentiate between violence or destruction. It is differentiation between ego & self- respect. You will know about possibility and assumption. Maturity will give you a clear the idea of comparison & result.

So when I became mature, the things are getting settled. I started knowing that how I can learn and earn accordingly. The main lesson which I have learnt when maturity was touching my head is, I became a person who did not get any effects from people that how they think , what they judge & what they do in their personal life. The thing which is not related to me, Simply It doesn’t bother me at all.

Yeah! I struggled, I frustrated at most of the situations of my life. I took many wrong decisions in my life but I did not fumble. I kept on doing the rest of the required things which went right as well as wrong. Now I  know when to compromise and when to not. You realize that you are mature enough when you got ability to live up to your responsibilities.  life is full of learning, you may learn at any time , any age and in any circumstances.

Level I (No Comparison) – When maturity level get started you will get to know what is good or bad for you and also for others. You will learn how an attempt to do something, gives results in different ways. Then you will never judge your self if you are learning what you want. You will never think about people’s mindset that what they think or what they are going to react on your new action. At that level you will feel better, relaxed & best thing is you will stop comparing your self to others. 🙂

Level II ( A good Choice) –  The second best thing when you had already achieved and lost at same point & you are unable to chose your way, where to go? what to do? A immature person will be taking so many advises, he will be exploring each n every possibility and will be doing nothing in the end but An Mature person will be knowing what would be pros & Cons of my action which I will be opting. Yes! it is true Actions needs brave heart. If you are mature then you will know your bravery which will make you strong internally to take any action positively.

End Level (No expectations, No regrets)– The level end is end of your hypothetical expectations, false hope, wrong decisions etc. It does not mean that if you are mature and you will be never taking decisions wrong. It sometime depend upon the situation and how fast you react to that. At the extreme level you will find yourself  calm, with a kind heart of forgiveness.

It is well said that Maturity is the art of living in peace with that you may change your prospects to live.

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A Girl who born to learn

Yah! It is me. I struggled a lot and still do not get what I actually want. I was the person who wanted to become an Engineer but due to my family wishes, I could not become that. I was doing job and now jobless. Again, struggle starts here. Again I have to start maybe from zero to reunite my inner strengths and will become a working lady on my own. But, Do you think the things which any one has done on his/her own decision will ruin that person like hell…

In actual, The answer for this, in my terms is NO ! Because I am here to learn. I am here to grow. Yes! I can see the dreams to get a better lifestyle with open n wide eyes. No one can stop me.

Yes! I am failing in so many things. Yes! I am jobless presently. Yes! I am alone somewhere but I can do the best . I will be doing from now and Now, definitely without any regrets.
To be continued….

Next part will be : Type of Struggles